Creating relationship with sons 
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| Whiz Grimsly had two sons in the NFL. I asked Whiz once how did he manage to do that? He said he had one rule: "You don't have to play football, just don't come home." :O> Tip Credibility: 18 (Best Tip!) |
| Don't force them into activities which you enjoy, or which you think would suit them. A lot of boys don't want to sportsmen, or intellectuals, or will just be miserable if pushed the wrong way. Tip Credibility: 10 |
| Build something together . A bird house or pencil hold It does not matter if it turns out to be a master piece the time together will create a memory. Tip Credibility: 9 |
| Be on the lookout for areas where your son can shine. Then show your interest and help him to grow in those areas, without being pushy. In this way you affirm him and give him the courage to persevere in things that may be challenging. Tip Credibility: 9 |
| Try to find a connection with each child that is something they really love that can build a bridge of discussion between you. For example Nick 13, loves music and Linkin Park, which is my favorite band. So we have this as our connector. Tip Credibility: 8 |
| One of the best gifts you can give your child is the gift of empowerment.Empower them to think for themselves and make decisions based on the values you've instilled. Let them know it's okay to make mistakes, but know there are consequences.Be a friend! Tip Credibility: 7 |
| As a single dad of 3 Its hard to find 1 on 1 time to spend with each -but so important to prioritise it - even if it's one afternnon or day a month where you do something special with that child. Makes them feel loved & special. U can also do game nights Tip Credibility: 7 |
| Talk often, laugh a lot, hug every day, teach them to cook, have them do their share of the work, insist they respect their mother, hike in the hills, swim in the sea with them, always be a peacemaker for them, show them character, integrity and courage Tip Credibility: 6 |
| Remember you are the Adult, he is the child. For Fathers who live apart from their sons it is vital to put the child's needs and interest first. If you can't find common interest than learn to enjoy what your son enjoys and let him teach you about it. Tip Credibility: 6 |
| The key is communication, love and support. I talk to my dad daily and we're both grown men. He's become one of my best friends- eager to listen and very supportive. Drop any macho sterotype and tell your son you love him every chance you get! Tip Credibility: 5 |
| Observation is key. Look at their room for clues about what they like. Ask them, pick up a teen mag or three. Ask what they think about articles or pictures. It is another clue. It is all about intelligence gathering, THEN make the connection, not before. Tip Credibility: 4 |
| Provide your children with more information about healthy activities that they are not aware of or dislike due to misinformation. Tip Credibility: 4 |
| It seems that teenaged boys talk about things less. Keep the path to communication open and they will come to you with what they feel are the important questions. Keep an eye out for signs of things they may not think are important however. Tip Credibility: 4 |
| I would second the tip not to force your hobbies and interests on your son. My father did this, and even worse, once he realised I wasn't interested in playing cricket or building model aeroplanes, he gave up on me as he'd no clue what to do. Tip Credibility: 4 |
| Build a collection of board games (they choose), and play together around the dining room table after dinner. Invite their friends, make pancakes and include all the family, bothers and sisters. It goes without saying that you have to turn off the TV. Tip Credibility: 4 |
| Love and Support your child. SPEND TIME with them. Don't buy into the myth of quality time is better than quantity. Boys need to spend A LOT of time with their fathers. Tip Credibility: 3 |
| One of the best things dad's can do with boys is to go get ice cream or a soda with them. Wake them up on vacation for surprise midnight trip snack to the store. They will love you for it. Tip Credibility: 3 |
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